大学英语听说教学教材3Unit4Marriage.doc

《大学英语听说教学教材3Unit4Marriage.doc》由会员分享，可在线阅读，更多相关《大学英语听说教学教材3Unit4Marriage.doc（8页珍藏版）》请在得力文库 - 分享文档赚钱的网站上搜索。

1、Unit 4 MarriagePart A Pre-listening TaskQuestions for Discussion 1.What do you think of marriage? Do you think a happy marriage is the most important thing in your life? 2.What kind of person do you want to marry? What are your standards in choosing a life companion? 3.What do you think is crucial f

2、or a happy marriage? 4.What usually causes troubles in a marriage? 5.Do you think differences between husband and wife are unavoidable? If you do, could you suggest some ways for them to deal with the problem? 6.Have you heard of marriage agreements? Do you think a couple should sign a marriage agre

3、ement before getting married? Additional Question for Discussion Do young men and young women have the same standards in choosing a spouse? If not, why not?Language Focus Here are some sentences and structures that you may find useful in discussing the above questions. Both men and women consider ma

4、rriage a very important part of their lives. Most men would like their spouses to be young and beautiful. Others consider inner beauty more important. When a woman chooses her spouse, she often puts emphasis on his character / temperament / education / profession / income / appearance / family backg

5、round. Some young women today consider of great importance in choosing a boyfriend / life companion. Happiness in marriage does not depend on material wealth. Marriages based on mutual love create a happy and harmonious atmosphere in the family. Mutual respect and understanding between husband and w

6、ife contribute much to a happy marriage. Education is an important condition for a good marriage because a couple whose educational levels do not match may not have much to say to each other / have constant arguments over family issues, big or small. A marriage based on romantic love alone will not

7、necessarily last long, for a sense of responsibility is also essential to a successful marriage. I would marry someone who loves me and cares for me most. I would marry someone who is generous / intelligent / ambitious / broad-minded / considerate / good-looking / kind-hearted / humorous. I wouldnt

8、like to marry someone who is too money-conscious / stingy / selfish / hot- tempered / narrow-minded / rude / impolite / possessive.Each individual is unique and differences between husband and wife are therefore unavoidable / a rule rather than an exception. Its very important for husband and wife t

9、o show appreciation of each other / talk and get to know what his or her partner expects. A marriage agreement sounds too practical / lacks romantic flavor / reduces marriage to mere business. I think a written marriage agreement shows how much you and your partner are going to respect each others n

10、eeds and expectations / promises a harmonious relationship in married life. Trouble starts in a marriage when one partner keeps complaining about small things, making the other feel resentful. Constantly criticizing your partner and his or her family gives rise to troubles in / may destroy a marriag

11、e. Lack of understanding / tolerance over differences may bring troubles to a marriage / cause a marriage to fail.Part B Listening TasksConversation 1 A Marriage Agreement (Part One) Word Bank outline v. to describe briefly with few details 概述 spouse n. a husband or wife 配偶 pet a. denoting a thing t

12、hat one feels particularly strongly about 格外的，极其的 peeve n. sth. that annoys you 惹人生气的事物 bug v. (American slang) to annoy, to irritate 激怒 article n. a section of a legal agreement that deals with a particular point 协议的条款 pet peeve sth. that you strongly dislike because it always annoys you 格外惹人生气的事Sc

13、ript: (Tom and Linda have signed a marriage agreement. Both agree not to break the rules outlined in the agreement. John, a reporter, is talking to them about the agreement.) John: Tom, Linda, first Id like to ask you why you decided to write this unusual agreement. Tom: We found that many problems

14、are caused when a person has different expectations from his or her spouse. We wanted to talk about everything openly and honestly before we started living together. Linda: Also we both know how important it is to respect each others pet peeves. Like, I can get very annoyed if others leave stuff clo

15、thing, papers, everything! lying around on the floor. It really bugged me, so we put that in the agreement. John: This is mentioned in Article 1: Cleaning Up, isnt it? It says, “Nothing will be left on the floor overnight. Everything must be cleaned up and put away before going to bed.” Tom: Then Il

16、l know clearly what Lindas expectations are.John: I see. What about Article 2: Sleeping? It says, “We will go to bed at 11 p.m. and get up at 6:30 a.m. except on weekends.” Im sure some people hearing this will think that this agreement isnt very romantic. Tom: Well, we disagree. We think its very r

17、omantic. This agreement shows that we sat down and talked, and really tried to understand the other person. A lot of problems occur in a marriage when people dont talk about what they want. Linda: Thats right. When we disagreed about something, we worked out a solution that was good for both of us.

18、I would much rather have Tom really listen to me and understand my needs than give me a bunch of flowers or a box of candy.Exercise 1 Listen to the conversation and choose the right answers to the questions you hear. 1. Which statement best summarizes the marriage agreement between Tom and Linda? a.

19、 It is a set of rules that will restrict their personal freedom to a certain extent. b. It is a set of rules that will enable them to live up to each others expectations. c. It is a set of rules that will prevent them from getting a divorce. d. It is a set of rules that will save their marriage. 2.

20、According to Tom, what will give rise to problems in a marriage? a. Different interests. b. Different pet peeves. c. Different expectations. d. Different sleeping habits. 3. What can be inferred about Linda from the conversation? a. She is sensible and well-organized. b. She doesnt like flowers or c

21、andy very much. c. She is too practical to be a good wife. d. She is quick-tempered and domineering.Exercise 2 Listen to the conversation again and complete the answers to the following questions. 1. Why did Tom and Linda decide to sign the agreement? Because they wanted to understand each others ex

22、pectations so that potential problems could be avoided and they could live happily together. 2. What is Article 1 about? Cleaning up. Everything must be cleaned up and put away before going to bed. 3. What is Article 2 about? Sleeping. Time for bed: 11 p.m.; time to get up: 6:30 a.m. except on weeke

23、nds.Conversation 2 A Marriage Agreement (Part Two) Word Bank update v. to make sth. up-to-date 更新 make it up to become friends again after a quarrel 争吵后和解 figure out to work out the solution to a problem 想出Script: John: Linda, do you spend a lot of time checking to see if the other person is followi

24、ng the rules? Arguing? Linda: No, not at all. Tom: A lot of couples argue because they dont understand each others expectations. I think we spend less time arguing than most couples because we both know what the other person expects. John: What happens if one of you breaks a rule? Tom: Well, thats i

25、n Article 13 of our agreement. John: Is it? Oh yes, Article 13: Breaking Rules. “If you break a rule, you must apologize and do something nice for the other person to make it up.” Linda: Yeah, like last time Tom broke the rule of driving. John: Whats the rule? Linda: The rule is we must ask for dire

26、ctions if we are driving and get lost for more than five minutes. John: What happened? Tom: We were driving to a friends wedding, and we got lost. Linda wanted to stop at a gas station to ask for directions, but I thought I could figure it out. Linda: Then we drove forty miles in the wrong direction

27、 and ended up being late for the wedding. Tom: So I took her out to dinner. I knew what I should do to apologize. John: Thats very important, I think, knowing how to apologize. By the way, do you plan to update your agreement at all? What if things change in your life and a rule doesnt work anymore?

28、 Linda: Weve thought about that too. Article 14 states that we must review this agreement once a year and make necessary changes. John: Well, it was really nice talking to you both. Thank you very much for your time. Tom & Linda: Thank you. Exercise 1 Listen to the conversation and choose the right

29、answers to the questions you hear. 1. How many articles are probably in Tom and Lindas marriage agreement? a. 12. b. 13. c. 14. d. 15. 2. How do Tom and Linda feel about their marriage agreement? a. Linda is not very happy with some of the articles in the agreement. b. Tom thinks some of the article

30、s in the agreement are too strict. c. Both Tom and Linda are satisfied with it. d. Both Tom and Linda are not satisfied with it and they want to make a lot of changes to it. 3. What will happen to their marriage agreement in a years time?a. They will review the articles and make changes to update th

31、em. b. They will sit down and write out a new agreement.c. They will not make any changes to the agreement. d. They will not need it anymore, as they are both familiar with its contents.Exercise 2 Listen to the conversation again and complete the answers to the following questions.1.What is stated i

32、n the rule of driving?It is stated that if they get lost for more than five minutes when they are driving, they must stop and ask for directions. 2. What is Article 13 about? What does it say?Article 13 is about breaking rules. The article says, “If you break a rule, you must apologize and do someth

33、ing nice for the other person to make it up.” 3. What is Article 14 about? What is stated in the agreement?It is about reviewing the contents of the agreement. It states that they must review this agreement once a year and make necessary changes.Speaking TasksPair Work Debating Arguments for or agai

34、nst giving first priority to economic status in choosing a spouse A Sample Nowadays, some young people give first priority to economic status in choosing a spouse. Are you for or against this standard in choosing a spouse? Express and defend your views from the perspectives given in the card below.T

35、opic: Is it right to give first priority to economic status in choosing a spouse? Perspectives: 1. From the perspective of a student (positive) 2. From the perspective of a social worker (negative)Possible Arguments (for reference)From the perspective of a student (positive) I think it is very natur

36、al for people to give first priority to economic status in choosing a spouse. We all know how important money is. Without money, we can hardly do anything. Lack of money in a marriage will cause problems to the couple. Even though the couple may have married for love, being always hard-pressed for m

37、oney, love will soon be replaced by quarrels and endless worries over money matters. If this happens, can they live happily together? So I think it is very important to first consider if your future spouse is able to share the responsibility of supporting a family. If not, just wait.From the perspec

38、tive of a social worker (negative)Nowadays, some young people consider economic status the most important factor when they choose a spouse. They think money can bring everything they want, like a big apartment, a car, or a trip abroad. However, can these material things really ensure happiness? I do

39、nt think so. A marriage based solely on material wealth will not necessarily be a happy one. Countless examples have shown that rich people often have unsuccessful marriages. A happy marriage is built on a deep love and affection between husband and wife, which cannot be bought by money.Now use the

40、above sample as your model and carry on similar activities with your partner.Topic: Is it right to give first priority to a university degree in choosing a spouse? Perspectives: 1. From the perspective of some students (positive) 2. From the perspective of some other students (negative)Some Ideas fo

41、r Reference The Argument (positive) 1.A university degree is the first thing Id consider when I choose my life companion. I think two people with very different educational backgrounds would have problems in communication. 2.A person with a university degree has been exposed to a wide range of knowl

42、edge / is well- educated. 3.What great pleasure it is to spend your life with someone who can share your enjoyment of music, art and literature, or discuss with you all sorts of subjects from the beauty of nature to aliens in outer space / new advances in science and technology. 4.A well-educated pe

43、rson tends to be more cultured, and more understanding, which will ensure happiness in a marriage. 5.A well-educated person is more likely to have a good career. 6.A university degree is almost a must in the competitive job market nowadays. Therefore a good educational background is key to a success

44、ful career, which will bring harmony and security to family life.The Counter-argument (negative) 1.I dont think a university degree is so important in choosing ones life companion. Personality is the first thing I would take into consideration when I choose a spouse. 2.To my mind, affection, honesty

45、, generosity, kindness, sympathy, and courage are the qualities I value more. 3.I think a persons moral virtue is very important and it is not decided by the amount of school education he or she has received. 4.A university degree does not necessarily bring happiness to a marriage. Mutual affection

46、and understanding are key to a happy marriage. 5.A person with a university degree is not necessarily well-educated. It depends on how much effort she or he made while at college.6.I believe in love / love at first sight. Id like to marry the person I love, and together we can pursue the dreams of o

47、ur life. 7.I dont think a university degree can ensure success in a career. Experience is sometimes more important than formal education. As a matter of fact, many entrepreneurs in China havent even received secondary education. Their success actually relies on their unusual personality and opportun

48、ities available.Part C Test Your ListeningA Conversation Listen to the conversation and choose the right answers to the questions you hear. 1.Which of the following is true of the womans husband? a.He doesnt share housework at home. b.He doesnt know how to put things in order. c.He doesnt care for h

49、is wife and children. d.Hes lazy and rude. 2.What do you know about the woman? a.Shes just got a job. b.She earns a lot of money. c.She does most of the housework at home. d.She has bad relations with her husband. 3.What does the man think of the womans complaints? a.He thinks the womans husband is lazy and messy. b.He doesnt want to pass judgment on t